Thinking of romantic ideas for boyfriends is not difficult for women. However, often we complain that our boyfriends / husbands are not romantic or not romantic enough. How many times do you find yourself saying, "I wish it was more romantic?"
They could be romantic at first, but this "romanticness' decreases with time, and probably vanishes. And this has to do with the intrinsic differences between the sexes.
* Women always fantasize about romantic ideas for friends, but men fantasize sensual pleasure.
* Women dream of romantic words, but men dream of new sexual positions.
* The women long to hear soft, but men do not pass "sufficient" time to think about romantic things to say. And here is our role.
Our role is to educate. Yes, that's what you should do. There are simple things we'd like to do (or not do), they do not know. Your man will not understand our needs without subtle give him a hand.
For example, most women can easily implement these romantic ideas for boyfriends and husbands:
1 - tell him you want to hear that you are beautiful, who loves you, who cares about you, and you can not live without you. Tell him you know what it does, but you want to hear that! At least twice per day. Tell him we're not satisfied "know", but we also want to hear. He probably does not know. Or possibly he already knows, but does not realize how important it is. Otherwise, I would have done!
2 - tell him you want to hear what others too, not just between the two of you. Explain that makes you more confident and proud of it.
3 - tell him that you want him to show how he cares for you. Again, you know you do, but you want him to ask. "How was your day" and "You look happy today" You want him to put his picture in his wallet, dashboard and on your desk at work. you want him to write a love letter handwritten. Want to buy you a gift occasionally. No opportunity must! educate him. Give some of these tips and you should follow this model and be creative.
4- tell you also want to hear about your problems, not just yours. If you are wondering why you are upset, you must say why. Tell him you do not like the guy secret. The secret is not good for your relationship, to say the least.
5 - Tell him you want to see the beautiful, everything you want to see beautiful. Your clothes, your neighborhood, your hair, your teeth, your breath, your dining etiquette and the like.
6 - tell him you want to kiss you, but not only during intercourse. A passionate embrace is sometimes more satisfying! Tell your heart is a closed book, and a hug is the main key to open it. I bet you will be surprised.
7 - The most important thing is to say that women are emotional. More emotional that happens. When we complained, we are not necessarily looking for a logical solution, as well as understanding and a comforting hug. He probably does not understand that. Make sure it does.
So, do not forget that if you want to rekindle your relationship with your partner, you have a responsibility to educate you on how you are different from him, how you are unworthy of a man. We need to invent more romantic ideas for boyfriends and husbands. Inventing romantic ideas for boyfriends easy for you, but not necessarily so easy for him.
If you find a gentle way to communicate these ideas to him, he should be allowed to see the differences between you, and how not to treat it as one of their guys!
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